Comments on: Want Love? Be Useless!

By: Ashwita

Ashwita — Mon, 27 Jul 2015 09:22:04 +0000

In reply to Nimisha. Yes, it is quite a liberating insight, isn't it :)

By: Ashwita

Ashwita — Mon, 27 Jul 2015 09:16:44 +0000

In reply to Nagarathna. Yes that is a very important question we need to ask ourselves every once in a while. We unwittingly end up loving a version of people that we think they should be, and then force them to change into that person. That is not love at all, it is nothing but an expectation of slavery.

By: Ashwita

Ashwita — Mon, 27 Jul 2015 09:15:25 +0000

In reply to yasin. Yup, exactly!

By: Ashwita

Ashwita — Mon, 27 Jul 2015 09:14:38 +0000

In reply to Sheetal. Yessssss, true test of love <3

By: Ashwita

Ashwita — Mon, 27 Jul 2015 09:13:34 +0000

In reply to Ramya. It is not an excerpt Ramya, a link to a short excerpt can be found where I say 'click here'. Glad you enjoyed the post :)

By: Nagarathna

Nagarathna — Mon, 27 Jul 2015 08:33:24 +0000

Hi Ash,

Good article. I am now thinking the other part of the article, whether I am using other persons in my life for my needs or am I just loving them because they are what they are! :-/ 😛

By: Nimisha

Nimisha — Mon, 27 Jul 2015 08:08:13 +0000

Wow!! Thank you ma’am for sharing your valuable thoughts in such a simple yet beautiful way . I realized it last year and from then on my life changed completely.:)

By: yasin

yasin — Mon, 27 Jul 2015 06:24:58 +0000

Very true. especially this part “And the compulsion to make this person feel important can be very tiring, very stifling for those receiving the favors.” sometimes those favors are imposed on u even if you don’t need them. and paying back or making people feel important in such a scenario is impossible. its like quick sand. Here being useless could also mean offer help but don’t hope or expect anything. if u do this, most of the burden is gone. and if u get back anything, even very little, u will be very happy cause u were not expecting it.

By: Sheetal

Sheetal — Mon, 27 Jul 2015 06:18:45 +0000

For sure you are sending me some message through this article 🙂 infact I asked for it since a week

By: Ramya

Ramya — Mon, 27 Jul 2015 05:28:23 +0000

Dear Ashwita,
The above is an excerpt of Oslo or it is completely yours?
Be it anything, I found it very helpful.. These are exactly the same thots tat were running in my mind for quite sometime..
Also, I love the way you have taken it… Juz as I thot it is contradicting the Humanitarian laws, u just took it to the right dimension…